Trouble
in relationships is like a fever in the body. Trouble in relationships is an
indicator something is wrong and needs changing, treatment, attention,
diagnosis, and some kind of action on your part. Someone who lives a defensive,
dependent life crumbles when threatened. A threat casts the defensive person
into despair. Living a defensive and dependent life creates faulty
relationships one after another. Defensive people defeat themselves with their
own defenses, always trying to justify themselves. This is how the darkness
threatens and keeps the defensive person captive. However, when we are
ultimately threatened we often let the defense rest or let the defense down.
Then we can let the Light of God's redeeming love work within our heart and
life. People grow to be defensive because they have been hurt or deprived. Even
when people are hurt by accident, the way people handle the accident, as well
as how they use, build, grow, and heal from the accident is determined by
whether a person chooses to live in the darkness or live in the Light after the
accident happens.
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